for this week:
1 John 1:3
That which we
have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have
fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and
with his Son Jesus Christ. 1:4 And these things write we unto
you, that your joy may be full.
Chapter 5, we studied how the relationship that God directs for a
man to have with his wife is directly like the relationship that
Jesus has with His church. We know that one day the church will be
the bride of Christ. The man is to look to Christ for leadership,
and the woman is to honor the man as the head of the family. We
finish our study this week on Ephesians as we cover Chapter 6 and
discuss the armour of God.
I. Christ and the Christian
Ephesians 6:1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is
Ephesians 6:2 Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first
commandment with promise;) 6:3 That it may be well with thee, and
thou mayest live long on the earth.
We studied last
week how a wife and husband should treat one another. This week, we
find that God gives directions to children also. And these
directions extend beyond our young years. Even as grow older, we
are commanded to obey our parent and the honor our father and
mother. It says we are to obey our parents in the Lord for this is
right. Nothing brings greater happiness to parents than to have
children that are obedient. And like we like to see obedience, God
desires that we obey him as his children.
1 John 5:2
By this we know that we love the children of
God, when we love God, and keep his commandments. 5:3 For
this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments: and his
commandments are not grievous.
As parents, we
should demand obedience from our children. If parents did a better
job of discipline in the home, we would have a far better society.
Verse 2 was the
first commandment given that included a promise. It says if we obey
our parents that it will be well with thee, and thou mayest live
long on the earth.
thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land
which the LORD thy God giveth thee.
This was the
fifth of the ten commandments.
Ephesians 6:4 And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath:
but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.
Not only are
children given instruction, but parents are commanded to properly
take care of their children. Verse 3 says to not provoke your
children to wrath. We are to rather love the children, and to
raise them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. When my
youngest child, Heather, graduated from high school, I told some of
the parents there that I knew that if I died at this point in my
life, my three children had been raised with the knowledge of right
and wrong and could take care of themselves. That is the best we
can do for our children. If we had millions of dollars in the bank,
and we left it to them, the money could be gone in a few weeks. But
a child raised up on God’s Word, knowing the commandments and
knowing Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior, this child has his feet on
the solid rock. I look back and wish I had not done certain things
in my life. But I’ll never regret spending the last 25 years in
church each week that my children might be prepared to deal with the
battles that the world will put in their path. If you are a parent
of a young child, let me encourage you to keep that child in church
and in Sunday School every week. When we are faithful to do what
God tells us to do, I promise you that God will do His part. Most
parents are very concerned with their child’s education, but they
don’t think much about their spiritual education. That truly is
MORE important than the worldly learning. Schools and colleges can
teach you to make a living, church and the word of God can teach you
how to live.
Title: Barnes Notes on the New
Author: Barnes, Albert
And ye fathers—A
command addressed particularly to “fathers,” because they are at the
head of the family, and its government is especially committed to
them. The object of the apostle here is, to show parents that
their commands should be such that they can be easily obeyed,
or such as are entirely reasonable and proper. If children are
required to “obey,” it is but reasonable that the commands of the
parent should be such that they can be obeyed, or such that the
child shall not be discouraged in his attempt to obey.
II. How Servants are to Treat
Ephesians 6:5 Servants, be obedient to them that are your masters
according to the flesh, with fear and trembling, in singleness of
your heart, as unto Christ;
Ephesians 6:6 Not with eyeservice, as menpleasers; but as the
servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart;
Ephesians 6:7 With good will doing service, as to the Lord, and not
Ephesians 6:8 Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the
same shall he receive of the Lord, whether he be bond or free.
The servant is
to be obedient to his master. During Paul’s day, there were many
people who worked as slaves, and this no doubt had reference to
them. This could also be related to employees and employers. We
should be the best employee we can when we are at work. I never
enjoyed those long cotton rows when I was a teenager back on our
farm in Knox County, but looking back, I know that my dad taught me
how to work. That has helped me as an adult. When I arrive at
work, I know I am coming to be at work. If we want to be
successful and have a good job, we need to be a hard worker and help
to make the company profitable. When they are profitable, it makes
every one’s job more secure.
Tim 6:1 Let as many servants as are under the yoke count their own
masters worthy of all honour, that the name of God and his doctrine
be not blasphemed.
Tim 6:2 And they that have believing masters, let them not despise
them, because they are brethren; but rather do them service, because
they are faithful and beloved, partakers of the benefit. These
things teach and exhort.
Tim 6:3 If any man teach otherwise, and consent not to wholesome
words, even the words of our Lord Jesus Christ, and to the doctrine
which is according to godliness;
Tim 6:4 He is proud, knowing nothing, but doting about questions
and strifes of words, whereof cometh envy, strife, railings, evil
Tim 6:5 Perverse disputings of men of corrupt minds, and destitute
of the truth, supposing that gain is godliness: from such withdraw
Tim 6:6 But godliness with contentment is great gain.
1 Tim 6:7 For
we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can
carry nothing out.
Tim 6:8 And having food and raiment let us be therewith content.
The employer has
a responsibility to be a good boss and to treat his employees
fairly. That is not always the way things are. God warns us how
things will be in the last days.
James 5:1 Go to now, ye rich men, weep and howl for your miseries
that shall come upon you.
James 5:2 Your riches are corrupted, and your garments are
James 5:3 Your gold and silver is cankered; and the rust of them
shall be a witness against you, and shall eat your flesh as it were
fire. Ye have heaped treasure together for the last days.
James 5:4 Behold, the hire of the labourers who have reaped down
your fields, which is of you kept back by fraud, crieth: and the
cries of them which have reaped are entered into the ears of the
Lord of sabaoth.
James 5:5 Ye have lived in pleasure on the earth, and been wanton;
ye have nourished your hearts, as in a day of slaughter.
James 5:6 Ye have condemned and killed the just; and he doth not
Tim 3:1 This know also, that in the last days perilous times shall
Tim 3:2 For men shall be lovers of their own selves, covetous,
boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful,
Tim 3:3 Without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers,
incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good,
Masters are to Treat Their Servants
And, ye masters, do the same things unto them, forbearing
threatening: knowing that your Master also is in heaven; neither is
there respect of persons with him.
needs to realize that he has a master in heaven and that there is no
respect of persons with him. Everyone is judged on his actions,
not on who we are or how important or prestigious we might be.
J. Vernon McGee
said this about employee/employer relationships.
slaves) are to be obedient to masters according to the flesh,
meaning the masters down here on earth. Servants are not to serve
with eyeservice—with one eye on the clock or working only when the
boss is looking. They are not to serve as “men-pleasers.” In other
words, they are not to butter up the boss. Service is to be done as
the servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the soul.
There is a
responsibility put upon a believer who is a laborer and also a
responsibility put upon one who is a capitalist or an employer. This
is the employer-employee relationship. In Paul’s day it was an even
sharper division than it is now—it was really master and slave.
Remember that this entire section began in chapter 5, verse 21,
which says, “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of
God.” That sounds all right for Sunday, for the church service, but
what about Monday morning when we go to work? Christian workers
working for Christian owners of the factory will not need a labor
boss to go to the capitalist and tell him what to do. I know of
several businesses run by dedicated Christians. They have chapel
service on company time, and they pay their workers while they are
attending chapel. They are prosperous—God has blessed them.
IV. The Warfare of the
Ephesians 6:10 Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in
the power of his might.
Ephesians 6:11 Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able
to stand against the wiles of the devil.
The warrior that
is to be strong has to understand that our strength comes from the
Lord. In our human bodies, we have very limited power. But when we
look to God and walk in the Spirit, we can be very effective in the
battle that is raging about us. Verse 11 says that we are to put
on the “Whole armour of God”. And when we do, we will be able to
stand against the wiles of the devil. Is the Devil devious? I
wouldn’t doubt if the word devious was derived from Devil. He knows
our weaknesses and knows how to attack us on every front. Why he
even thought he knew how to trick Christ. He used the word of God
to try and trip up the Lord. But partial truths or pieces of
scripture could not fool Jesus Christ.
Mat 4:1 Then was
Jesus led up of the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted of the
Mat 4:2 And when he had fasted forty days and forty nights, he was
afterward an hungered. Mat 4:3 And when the tempter came to
him, he said, If thou be the Son of God, command that these stones
be made bread. Mat 4:4 But he answered and said, It is
written, Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that
proceedeth out of the mouth of God. Mat 4:5 Then the
devil taketh him up into the holy city, and setteth him on a
pinnacle of the temple, Mat 4:6 And saith unto him, If thou
be the Son of God, cast thyself down: for it is written, He shall
give his angels charge concerning thee: and in their hands they
shall bear thee up, lest at any time thou dash thy foot against a
stone. Mat 4:7 Jesus said unto him, It is written again, Thou shalt
not tempt the Lord thy God. Mat 4:8 Again, the devil taketh
him up into an exceeding high mountain, and showeth him all the
kingdoms of the world, and the glory of them; Mat 4:9
And saith unto him, All these things will I give thee, if thou wilt
fall down and worship me. Mat 4:10 Then saith Jesus
unto him, Get thee hence, Satan: for it is written, Thou shalt
worship the Lord thy God, and him only shalt thou serve. Mat
4:11 Then the devil leaveth him, and, behold, angels came and
ministered unto him.
Ephesians 6:12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but
against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the
darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.
Ephesians 6:13 Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God,
that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done
all, to stand.
Ephesians 6:14 Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with
truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;
The bible is
quite clear that we are in an intense battle with Satan. A lot of
people are so deceived that they don’t know they been blinded by his
trickery. But it is a daily battle for the mind. We have to
realize who we are battling, and take every tool God can give us to
repel Satan. It says in verse 12 that our battle is against
spiritual wickedness in high places. There truly are rulers of
darkness in this evil world, and we need to go forth with open eyes
and be equipped with all the armour God can provide us. It says to
take unto you the whole armour of God that ye may be able to stand
in the evil day. What are some of those pieces of armour? It
says to have our loins girt about with truth, and to have on the
breastplate of righteousness. What is truth? God’s Word is
truth. We need to know the Word of God. And that comes by
intensive reading and studying. We need to not only read the word,
but apply it unto wisdom. If we want the breastplate of
Righteousness, we must know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior and
stand in His strength.
Study Bible had this to say about the battle we face:
In the Christian’s warfare against “the wiles of the devil,” he is
to arm himself with spiritual armor in the same way that the Roman
soldier (perhaps one was chained to Paul at the moment of writing)
was customarily equipped for his physical warfare. The term “wiles”
is the Greek
from which comes the word “method.”
Thus, the Christian is to arm himself against the “methods” of the
Gk., lit. “the one who
The phrase “having girded” (perizoµgsamenoi,
Gk.) refers to the way a
soldier or laborer in the first-century world would draw his long,
loose-fitting undergarment up between his knees and tuck it into his
belt so that he might run or work unhindered by the garment, which
might otherwise cause him to stumble or be hurt. Living an honest,
transparent life according to the truth plays a similar role in the
Christian’s walk and service.
Ephesians 6:15 And your feet shod with the preparation of the
gospel of peace;
Ephesians 6:16 Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye
shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.
Ephesians 6:17 And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of
the Spirit, which is the word of God:
Ephesians 6:18 Praying always with all prayer and supplication in
the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and
supplication for all saints;
I think that
Paul day after day while he was in prison would look out at that
Roman soldier, and by the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, he was
able to write to us how we as Christians should use all the special
armour of God to fight our battle. Our feet are to be covered with
the gospel of peace. Have you shared the gospel with others this
past week? Or has Satan filled your life with so many things that
you don’t have time for God? If he can’t weight us down with sin,
he will sure make us so busy that we fail to read our bible and do
those things that are most important. It says to put on the helmet
of salvation. We need to know Jesus as our Lord and Savior, and
then take up that sword of the Spirit, which is clearly the Word of
God. Is it powerful? Can it cut through the mind and the issues
of the heart? God’s Word is ultimately powerful.
4:12 For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than
any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul
and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the
thoughts and intents of the heart.
perhaps the most under utilized weapon that the child of God has at
his or her disposal. We are to be constantly in prayer. The bible
says to pray without ceasing. Verse 18 says to pray ALWAYS with
all prayer and supplication in the Spirit. That means to be
serious in our praying and stay after it. We as Christians need to
stand in faith, in the word, and certainly stand in prayer.
V. Paul’s Request For Himself
Ephesians 6:19 And for me, that utterance may be given unto me,
that I may open my mouth boldly, to make known the mystery of the
Ephesians 6:20 For which I am an ambassador in bonds: that therein
I may speak boldly, as I ought to speak.
concern was that the gospel might be preached. He asks that they
pray that he might speak boldly, and as he ought to speak. Any
man, who is called of God, has a burning desire to put forth the
gospel. And I believe every Christian who truly knows the Lord
desires to tell others about the salvation God gives so freely.
But a man of God almost has a burning need to preach.
one time that he was just going to stop preaching. But he found it
was not so easy.
20:7 O LORD, thou hast deceived me, and I was deceived: thou art
stronger than I, and hast prevailed: I am in derision daily, every
one mocketh me.
20:8 For since I spake, I cried out, I cried violence and spoil;
because the word of the LORD was made a reproach unto me, and a
20:9 Then I said, I will not make mention of him, nor speak any
more in his name. But his word was in mine heart as a burning fire
shut up in my bones, and I was weary with forbearing, and I could
Ephesians 6:21 But that ye also may know my affairs, and how I do,
Tychicus, a beloved brother and faithful minister in the Lord, shall
make known to you all things:
Ephesians 6:22 Whom I have sent unto you for the same purpose, that
ye might know our affairs, and that he might comfort your hearts.
Ephesians 6:23 Peace be to the brethren, and love with faith, from
God the Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.
Ephesians 6:24 Grace be with all them that love our Lord Jesus
Christ in sincerity. Amen.
Paul was very
concerned about the churches and his brethren. Here in a lonesome
jail cell where there was no love or warmth, Paul desires that he
could find peace, love and faith for the brethren. What a testimony
for a man imprisoned who was only concerned for others, and for the
cause of Jesus Christ.
Version Study Bible had this to say about Paul’s brother Tychicus.
Tychicus appears on five
occasions in the New Testament, and in each he serves as a messenger
for or representative of Paul. He is first mentioned as a delegate
from his church in Asia Minor. He is bearing its offering,
accompanied by Paul and others (Acts 20:4), to the impoverished Jews
of Jerusalem (Rom. 15:26; 2 Cor. 8:19). Tychicus may have been won
to the Lord, or at least made contact with Paul, during the
apostle’s three-year mission in Ephesus. At the end of that third
journey of Paul Tychicus traveled with him to Jerusalem. He remained
with Paul after his imprisonment. When Paul wrote his epistles to
the Ephesians and Colossians, Tychicus carried them back to his
native Asia Minor (v. 21; Col. 4:7). More importantly, Paul sent
Tychicus first to relieve Titus in overseeing the churches on Crete
(Titus 3:12), and later to replace Timothy at Ephesus (2 Tim. 4:12)
in order that the latter might minister to Paul during his second
Roman imprisonment (2 Tim. 4:9, 21). (First Reference, Acts 20:4.)
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